Question: My family was never into education, so I don’t know how to help my child with homework.
Dr. Roth: Sometimes it is a good model for your child that you cannot help him with his homework. This situation can demonstrate problem-solving behavior. Plan a meeting with the teacher to determine what needs your child has and what needs an intervention. Most parents can help with the beginning years of homework. Even parents with higher educational background can be at a loss to help with “new math” or specialty approaches to learning. Do not despair.
Do attempt to find help for your child. Here are some ideas.
- Look for a teacher at school who tutors on the side. This is especially helpful because she will be familiar with the curriculum.
- A sibling who may be able to help.
- Ask your child's teacher to provide extra help for your child.
- Ask for specific activities suggested by the teacher that you could do to help your child.
- Find a peer tutor (another child who is advanced and can provide help).
- Look for a college student to help with homework.
- Hire a tutor or educational therapist who can teach strategies that are needed to build the missing links.
Brandi Roth, Ph.D. is the co-author of two books for parents: Choosing the Right School for Your Child, (1995) and Secrets to School Success (2002), both published by Association of Ideas Publishing.
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