Computer-smart parents know there's more to buying kids' software than a colorful box and a catchy title. Many of us have learned this lesson the hard way—and have a bookcase full of pricey software titles gathering dust to prove it! So how do you know which titles will be educational, worth the money, and well-liked by your kids so they can continue learning after school? Well, aside from a crystal ball, there are a few tricks to software buying that can help you through the software jungle.

  • Determine your goals in buying a particular piece of software. Does it augment your child's critical thinking skills, or improve on a specific skill (such as math or writing)? Do you want to use the program to drill facts and figures, or to develop more creative thinking? Or, is it merely for amusement? Answering these types of questions is crucial to selecting software you—and your child—will be happy with.
  • You should know that there are two basic types of educational programs: single-subject and so-called "edutainment" programs, which cover a broad range of subjects.
    • Often these are theme based, such as the simulation games of "SimCity" and its sister titles; or organized by grade level, as is "My Personal Tutor," offering a comprehensive curriculum rather than focusing on a single skill.
    • Good examples of single-subject software titles are "Millie's Math House," "Reader Rabbit" and the "Carmen San Diego" series.
  • Be choosy. Not all educational software is created equal. Some programs don't include anything special enough to justify their hefty price tag. Others are so TV-like that children become passive viewers instead of involved learners. The best kids' software developers, like astute parents and teachers, understand what appeals to kids at different ages, and what they need to learn as well as how they learn. The best software titles will keep kids playing (and learning) again and again.
  • Do your homework. Read the software reviews found in PC and parenting magazines. Ask friends, teachers, and librarians for their recommendations. If you can, visit a computer superstore where you and your child can test-drive a few titles before you buy.
  • Consider your child's educational skills and style. What are his or her academic strengths and weaknesses? Does she hate quizzes but do well with word problems? Can he sit for hours working at a puzzle but is intimidated by artistic activities? Also, talk with your child's teacher to get a clearer picture of his learning style and abilities.
  • For preschoolers, choose software that fosters discovery. Programs that let kids play and learn at their own pace are highly recommended. Kids of all ages are drawn to colorful graphics, music, and other multi-media touches, but for younger kids it’s especially important to help pull them in and keep them interested. On the other hand, make sure the program's graphics are simple and the sound appropriate; some parents notice with their little ones that too many on-screen antics (like animation and sound effects) can be overwhelming.
  • For kids in the primary grades, find out how (and when) your child's school introduces certain concepts so you can complement the classroom curriculum with your software programs at home. Select a wide range of software, including art and creativity programs, interactive storybooks, critical thinking and logic programs, desktop publishing and science—as well as the 3Rs.
  • And for older students, frankly, it can be hard to find truly educational titles that aren't a bore. The good news is, there are often educational merits to be found within other software programs. As examples, the popular Age of Empires reinforces social studies and geography through studying the history and culture of the civilizations represented; the action-packed Command & Conquer requires logic and critical thinking (by developing your troops' strategies) and math skills (through managing the budget and resources of your tiny army).
  • Have realistic expectations. Computers can't think for your kids. They can't (and shouldn't) do their homework for them. Computers alone won't transform your child into a successful reader or a math whiz. There's still nothing better than lots of books, hands-on learning, and open communication—coupled with one-on-one parental encouragement and participation. Choose software you can use with your child again and again, for your interest and involvement is as important as the lessons the software holds.


 

Natalie Walker Whitlock is a freelance writer and mother of seven children, including infant twins. She is the author of "A Parent's Guide to the Internet" (2003, Mars Publishing.)