 Judy
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Teaching young children to manage anger is a very complex process.
First, you have to be sure you are modeling the sort of behavior you want from them -- no screaming from mom or dad, no matter what they do. I know that's not always possible, but it should be your goal.
Second, you need to watch for triggers and try to head them off before they occur. Angry outbursts are much more common in kids who are overtired, overstimulated, or hungry. If you can avoid the triggers, you can greatly decrease the angry outburst.
Third, your expectations must be realistic. They are young and this will take some time to accomplish.
Finally, I am a huge fan of Stanley Turecki's book "The Difficult Child" Despite the name, it's quite useful for average kids as well. The parenting tips he gives are excellent and truly apply to all children. If at all possible, find the first edition of the book. It's much funnier than later editions and his sharing of personal stories will make you feel like you aren't alone in this.
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