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Help! How do I get my 11 year old motivated about studying

My child does not like to study and he gives up when he doesn't understand how to do something.

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I think it is practically instinctual for any child to give up when he thinks he's going to fail anyway. I also think that at 11, most kids would still rather play than do school work. So, my suggestion to you is to break up what it is he has to do and that might help make it not so tedious.

As a general rule, kids shouldn't be doing more than 10 minutes of homework for each grade they're in per night. For example, if your son is 11 he's probably in the 5th grade, so he should have to worry about homework for no more than 50 minutes a night.

One thing I never do is ask my kids about homework right when they get home from school. We all need downtime when we get home from work at night and kids are no different. Offer him a snack and let him have 15 or 20 minutes of video game or computer time before you start asking him about homework.

If he has a lot, then break it up into work to be done before and after dinner or let him work for 30 minutes and then play on the computer for like 10 minutes. If he knows that his hard work will be rewarded by something immediate like that, it might encourage him to work a little harder without dragging his feet or complaining so much. Good luck!
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