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avatar Anonymous

How can I stop my two year old boy from hitting and yelling?

He screams at the top of his lungs I feel I have tried everything and nothing is working! He hits during these fits anything or anyone near him!

Question applies to ages: 2

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avatarRebecca
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This is a tough age for kids--they so often don't have the right words to express themselves, which leads to frustration and tantrums. When your son gets explosive, it's important to stay calm yourself and model the type of behavior you'd like to see from him. Hold his wrists if he tries to hit you, and calmly ask him why he's so upset, and how you can help him solve his problem.

During times of good behavior, be sure to praise him and let him know that this is a better way to act.

When you get frustrated yourself, model appropriate reactions by talking out loud and not exploding. For example, say out loud: "I am so angry that I locked the keys in the car, but I know it won't help to scream and cry. I'm going to call someone for help, and they wouldn't be able to understand my words if I was screaming."

Understand that this is probably a phase, and will improve as he gets older. But don't hesitate to voice your concerns to your pediatrician at your next appointment. Good luck!

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EduGuide contributing editor, mom of two hot-headed children
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