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avatar Anonymous

transitions and readiness

I have a child who just turned 4 he is always hitting or kicking others calling them names , using foul words and threating to kill others including the teachers. What are someways to help this child get on the right track I have tried everything I can think of.

thank you

Question applies to ages: 3, 4

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Top 5 in: Discipline, Families and Relationships, Growth and Development, Learning Styles, Manners and Values, Parenting Support, Parents and SchoolsTop 5 in 7 Topics		 This is a tough question. I think the child is fortunate to have someone like you who is trying so hard to help him.

I know I would certainly find it worrisome if a 4-year-old was using foul language and threatening violence in such an extreme fashion. Is it possible to work with the parents or guardians in this situation and bring them in as partners? This way the child could get consistent messages at home and at school about respectful ways to treat others and to be treated.

Does your school/preschool have a counseling system? Is there somewhere that the child could go to receive individualized attention from a mental health professional?

You might find this article helpful:
www.associatedcontent.com/article/22373/dealing_wi

Good luck!
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