One- to three-year-olds are full of energy, and sometimes it's difficult to slow them down. You can help your little one settle down — and get ready for preschool — by choosing fun family activities that are engaging but quiet. This is a good time for Grandma or Grandpa to offer their services. Older adults can bring wisdom and patience into the active life of a toddler. These quiet moments can be a time for toddler learning too.

What You Need:

A comfy place, away from lots of activity
Popular children's books with bright colors and simple text

Let's Go:

Choose a quiet, comfortable spot for toddler reading. When possible, sit close to your child when you read. Your relaxed body will help your child relax. (Never force a child to "sit still and read," however. Keep reading while the toddler plays nearby. She often will listen while she plays, and may come to sit with you later.)

Ask your child to read this book with you. Speak slowly and carefully, stopping often to look at the pictures or talk about the action in the book. Ask your child simple questions like "Who is in this picture?" or "What is this character doing?" or "Where is the baby?" Avoid asking the "why" questions--these are often too difficult for toddlers to explain. As you read the story, let your child add comments and questions so the "reading" becomes a discussion--toddler style.