Stop Bullying Now! What We Can Do as Parents.
- Students shouldn't have to suffer in silence. If a child continues to be the subject of repeated teasing and harassment, he should tell a trusted adult. Ask about peer-to-peer programs that help students address conflict resolution.
- Listen to your child. Avoid advice like toughen up or take it like a man or hit back. Chances are, if the harassment is bad enough for your child to tell you about it, it deserves your full attention and resolution.
- Work with school administrators, other parents and law enforcement officials to resolve your child's situation. Remember, your child deserves to learn in a safe environment, free of harassment and anger in children.
- Inform yourself about the laws in your state designed to protect children from harassment at school and social violence in the community, including at the school bus stop.
Bullying Statistics and Special Resources
"The Brand New Kid" by Katie Couric, co-host of NBC's TODAY Show, was inspired by childhood memories and by the Columbine shootings, which Couric called the toughest story she's covered as a journalist. Through this story about tolerance, Couric challenges parents to stop excusing mean-spirited behavior and instead teach children how to model kindness and tolerance. Published by Doubleday.
"Simon's Hook: A Story About Teases and Put Downs" by Karen Gedig Burnett, Laurie Barrows (illustrator). Published by GR Publishing.
"Childhood Bullying and Teasing: What School Personnel, Other Professionals and Parents Can Do" by Dorothea M. Ross. Published by American Counseling Assn.
Other Help and Bullying Facts
"Friends Who Care" is an award-winning, disability-awareness curriculum designed to help sensitize non-disabled students to their peers with disabilities. The program includes a teacher guide, video and several posters. The kit is available from The National Easter Seals Society, 70 East Lake Street, Chicago, IL 60601, (312) 726-6200.